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This topic has been brought up numerous times and I keep seeing how men are linking together women and money and keep saying how women want their money. I want to make this clear once and for all: It's bullshit! NO, we  don't  want your money! BUT we also do not want a lazy bum, who is unemployed, unambitious, has no perspective and doesn't know what to do with his life either and doesn't do anything to improve his situation. It truly sickens me a lot to see how men genuinely believe, that they need money in order to impress women. I mean they are right if they want gold diggers, who are out there to use their money but the reality is if men don't have the money to get together with these gold diggers in the first place, then they can't get into that kind of a fake relationship to begin with. There is only you to blame if you manage to catch a gold digger. Check yourself thoroughly and take responsibility in who you are choosing as your partner. ...

The Barcelona star highlighted the Premier League and Ligue 1 sides as the top challengers for the Champions League this term Lionel Messi believes Manchester City and Paris Saint-Germain are the strongest teams in Europe this season and the favourites to win the Champions League. Led by Messi's former coach Pep Guardiola, City are sailing at the top of the Premier League with 34 points, eight more than nearest rivals Manchester United, while they have a perfect record in Europe. PSG are also five wins from five games in the premier club competition and are looking strong at the top of Ligue 1 with Neymar, Edinson Cavani and Kylian Mbappe in attack. Messi sees those two as the biggest dangers to Barcelona's hopes of winning the Champions League this season. "City is one of the strongest teams at the moment together with PSG," he told  Marca . "So far, they have been the two teams that have shown themselves to be favourites, but this is a very long ...

13 Attitudes to get rid of for a healthy and happy love relationship  Is your relationship suffering and lacking peace and love? are you wondering what may be the cause? check to see where you err and follow the helpful instructions to get rid of frustration, suffering, and pain for a happy and successful love relationship. First things first, you must first be sure if your relationship is worth fighting for. if it is, then following these helpful tips is all you will need. 1. Jealousy Jealousy is a feeling of envy. You can only be jealous of something you wish to have and that is because you don’t already have it. Everyone has the tendency to be jealous, but how you control jealousy is all that matters because it is capable of building or destroying you. You don’t have to be a green-eyed monster in your relationship, it can only destroy your happiness and that of your relationship. There are many ways of handling such an issue in a relationship and here is one; for the sake of pea...

Kaduna State Governor  Nasir El-Rufai   has said he wishes former vice president   Atiku Abubakar   well as he leaves the  All Progressives Congress   (APC) , Premium Times reports. Atiku had,  in a statement personally signed by him on Friday , announced his resignation from the APC, citing lack of good relationship with the party leadership, among other issues. In an interview at the State House after attending the Friday juma’at service with the president, El-Rufai said he’d heard Atiku would leave the party in December. He said: I have heard about what the former Vice President said about leaving the APC. We knew he was going to leave in December but he has left in November which is good because the earlier he leaves for where he belongs, the better. He has changed political parties a few times, there is nothing surprising. Before the 2019 elections if situation changes and he thinks he can get the ticket in 2019 he will come back. That is...

Chelsea forward, Eden Michael Hazard has stated that he admires European champions, Real Madrid but happy at Stamford Bridge at the moment. The 26-year-old Belgian had recently said it would be “a dream” to work under his boyhood idol and Madrid boss, Zinedine Zidane. Also the former France captain has frequently stated his admiration for the Chelsea star. Hazard is back to top form and a central place in Antonio Conte’s plans, scoring three and assisting another goal in four Premier League starts for the reigning champions after returning from an ankle injury.\ The player has contract at Stamford Bridge until 2020. He told French TV, “For the moment, I want to finish this year. Everyone knows the admiration I have for Real, but for the moment, I’m a Blue. And each year people have said things, and each year I have stayed at my club. “When I was at Lille, people started saying Paris Saint-Germain and everything, but I stayed at Lille. At Chelsea, every year, they say Paris ...

I've often wondered to myself about what exactly attributes of good character are, as well as, how people express them. I didn't really pay attention to people as a teenager, but about a year ago that changed. I had a crazy ex. Yeah yeah yeah... you've probably heard this story before, so I'll spare you the details. I'm sure everybody has dated their own version of a crazy at some point in their lives, so I figured I'd write a take on what to look for in people, whether they be your friend, SO, or coworkers. So what are some signs that show significant character in people? Whether they had money troubles, marriage issues, or if they had gone through depression from a death of a parent, these are huge unexpected challenges like those can change the core of a person. Anytime someone takes a punch in the gut from life, in one way or another, their character shifts. Simply put, people often have two choices when it comes to these challenges: t...

#men #masculine After many troubling conversations with a lot of guys here. I began to notice a pattern. So I wanted to create a thread to address a few things. Apparently, many men at GaG cannot figure out how to define their masculinity independent of women. This creates a huge problem when it comes to understanding women's issues. Because guys think, they are men only because of their relation to where women are in their lives and/or the amount of power they think women wield, etc. They can't even articulate what they think a man is supposed to stand for. They cannot voice an opinion on what traits and qualities go into being masculine. Because of that, they can't seem to articulate goals and objectives they want to work towards as men. They can't clearly define the obstacles in their path. The only answer they can give is to blame feminism for their lack of power or for their inability to embrace their manhood. Which is quite disturbing. So her...