Not Every Woman Deserves a Great Guy. (Like not all Guys Deserve a Great Woman)

Not every woman deserves a great guy. I know this might get some pretty nasty responses but I have had this on my mind for a while. I have heard so many times that every girl is a princess and should have a prince of her own. That is not true. Why would a girl that is unpleasant deserve a knight in shinning armor?

It is almost as if women are taught that they are special just because they are female. That is not fair to the wonderful ladies in this world, that work at being good. I know many girls that are sweet and sure they should have happiness with someone just as kind, but people that are mean should not be rewarded with good people.

My girlfriend has a friend that just started dating a guy about three months ago and things are going great, my girlfriend told her “Don’t settle for anyone, you deserve someone that treats you like (my name) treats me.” I told her "Sure (this friend) is a great girl." My girlfriend goes one to say “I would say that to all my friends.” I looked at her and said “I don’t think you should, you have THAT one friend that should work on herself before she is deserving of a great guy.”

But why is that men aren’t thought to deserve a good woman in their life unless they are a good catch? Isn’t part of our generation and equality that there are no separate roles or standards based on one’s sexy? But we are still told that women are special just for being women? But I don’t know of any ad campaigns that tell men that they are special for just being men, that would mean that the campaign is sexist and adding to “a privileged, ego inflated male driven society.”

So in short I believe that both men and women should be worthy of someone good, not just expect that they should have someone good. It is kind of a karma thing, you get what you give. I treat my girl like a queen, because she is amazing and she deserves it and in return I’m treated like a king by her.